Whether you’re newly embarking on a hair journey or have been at it a while, it can sometimes be challenging to remember the true intention behind selfcare. With a frequent emphasis on corrective care, i.e., replenishing moisture, boosting shine, promoting volume, and supporting overall hair health, some things can get lost in translation. There’s nothing wrong with #hairgoals, but you should never have to feel like your hair isn't beautiful as it is.

One could say, “the grass is always greener,” and we often do when it comes to our hair. Many curly-haired gals dream of perfectly smooth locks, while others with stick-straight tresses long for voluminous waves. It’s often so much easier to appreciate what others have rather than celebrate what we do.

With that in mind, let's show ourselves a little love with some tips to fully embrace and love our hair here and now.

Understand what about your hair bothers you

Everyone has those days when your waves fall flat, or you feel like the Frizz Prince of Bel-Air. Those annoyances are easy to shrug off, but if you’re deeply distressed about your tresses, there may be more to it. 

Find out the root of the problem first and address the issue with patience. For example, preventing frizz may be as simple as researching different shampoos, conditioners, or naturally-derived styling products like Hair La Vie Serum for smooth and glossy locks.

If it relates to everyday shedding, just know it's normal to be concerned; however, it’s likely unnoticeable to anyone but you. The purpose of Hair La Vie’s potent and naturally derived haircare is to empower you to invigorate your internal health, support follicles, and thrive.

Remember, your hair makes you unique

Just like any feature, say your freckles or a fluffy brow, your hair is part of what makes you, you. Think about how boring it would be if everyone looked the same! The very thing you might be self-conscious about might be what others admire. Do you have bright ginger hair to go with your vibrant personality? Or maybe a little salt ’n pep in your once raven mane? Own it and know there's someone else who would love to have hair just like yours.

Try new hairstyles

Changing up your style can be a fun way to express personality and taste. If you're feeling weary about your hair, trying a new haircut or style may be just the thing. You’ll be amazed at what a difference a simple cut or blowout can make for a confidence boost.

Some trends are for curly queens, while others give short hair their moment to shine! It can even be as small as switching your part to the center to freshen up your look. Seeing all that you can do with your particular hair type or color will help you appreciate your own locks. Reliable products, inspiration, and tutorials are all you need to fall back in love with your hair.

Ditch heat styling tools

We’re all for a glam look, but if your straightener is your emotional support blanket, then gently set it down and step away. Drop the curling iron, ditch the hot rollers while you’re at it, and try giving your hair a break. Besides the fact that styling tools can damage your hair, how are you supposed to learn to love your hair if you never wear it naturally?

Instead of a curling iron, why not style your natural wave or curl with some fun accessories, or beach up your straight strands with a little scrunching and mousse. What people will end up noticing are subtle boldness and carefree beauty.  Or, if you’ve never been much of a wash ’n go gal, then gather up your courage and go out with hair au naturalè. 

Speak positively about your hair

Lastly, remember that words have power, so using positive language when speaking about your hair can improve your mindset and the way you view your hair.

Final thoughts

It's time we start loving ourselves for who we are and our hair lengths, texture, color, and all!

Hair La Vie wants to celebrate all hair journeys and re-define what it means to have achieved your hair goals, not by someone else’s beauty standards, but by yours because you deserve to feel your best. We hope these suggestions have inspired you to embrace your hair for all it is.